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You Don’t Have to Love Yourself

Ditch Self-Loathing, Heal Complex Trauma, and Find Peace in Self-Neutrality

Author:
Heidi Green, PsyD
Copyright:
2026
Publication Date:
Jan 06, 2026
Publisher:
Bridge City Books
Product Code:
BCB089825
ISBN13:
9781962305495
Format:
Paperback
Number of Pages:
232
Media Type:
Book


Description

What if you stopped trying to force self-love; and worked toward self-neutrality instead?

Self-help culture claims that the key to happiness is simple: just love yourself! However, to change course on the well-worn path of self-criticism and shame is easier said than done, especially if you’ve experienced complex trauma.

Clinical psychologist Dr. Heidi Green knows that the journey to self-love can feel unrealistic, even impossible, for some. That’s why she has a different approach – an antidote to self-loathing she calls self-neutrality. Instead of trying to force platitudes like “love yourself” and “just focus on the positive,” self-neutrality encourages you to be curious and compassionate toward yourself.

You Don’t Have to Love Yourself doesn’t offer quick fixes or toxic positivity. Rather, it guides you to accept yourself as you are now – with authenticity, humility, and compassion – and without judgment or the need to change. This book will teach you to navigate challenging situations, cultivate a healthier inner dialogue, and develop a more realistic and balanced relationship with yourself, leading with sensitivity for all you have been through.

If you’ve ever struggled with shame-based thinking or felt frustrated by the impossible standards of self-help culture, this book provides a realistic road map to peace, self-acceptance, and true emotional freedom.

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Dr. Heidi Green, is a highly respected clinical psychologist and trauma therapist who trained at a world-renowned center for trauma and addiction treatment, Psychological Counseling Services, in Scottsdale, Arizona. Now in private practice, Dr. Green has become a leading expert in trauma healing and personal empowerment. She’s made national television appearances on “The List” as a trusted mental health authority and is the author of The Path to Self-Love and World Domination in which she captures her journey from insecurity and self-doubt to emotional recovery and self-acceptance with humor, humility, compassion, and a saucy spirit. Her therapeutic specialties include trauma, self-esteem, codependency, body image, boundaries, healthy sexuality, depression, anxiety, crisis intervention, and more. Using some of today’s most in-demand evidence-based treatments like DBT and EMDR, Dr. Green is recognized for her remarkable ability to connect with individuals and guide them on a transformative journey of self-discovery, personal growth, and improved well-being.

Speaker Disclosures:
Financial: Dr. Heidi Green maintains a private practice and receives royalties as a published author. She receives a speaking honorarium and recording royalties from PESI, Inc. She has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.
Non-financial: Dr. Heidi Green is a member of the American Psychological Association.


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